It seems that you just need to learn to program first then learn to use the different "User Interfaces" or UI that are available to for your use.
Since you do not like the links to tutorials that have been supplied by the previous posts I will give you a link to a training disk that you will need to buy. This DVD is designed for the complete beginner to c# and XNA.
You will find about 30 hours of training in vol 1.
You start out designing and building a text based game that uses the console and then you move on to winforms and then finally into a true XNA game.
Being relitivly new to any programing language stronger than gwbasic, I found this DVD to be priceless.
Enough talk here is the link XNA Xtreme Vol. 1