XBLIG games have no capability to connect to anything outside of XBLIG. You can take a look at
this
Jim Perry - Microsoft XNA MVP
If people spent a minute
searching the forums and reading
the FAQs before posting I'd be out of a job.
Got some XNA Game Studio/XNA Framework development info to share with the community? Put it on the
XNA Wiki.
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